Superstars, I'm hoping you can help me out. If this post makes no sense it's because my brain is reeling.
Yesterday, my boyfriend of almost three years dumped me completely unexpectedly. I tried to get him to tell me why, but he gave me some vague crap about "I just grew apart" and wouldn't say more than that. I really don't think that is the only reason, because when he came home from some military training last weekend everything seemed ok. I had absolutely no warning. Here's where I'm hoping you can answer my questions.
I asked him if he was ditching me because he had met someone else, and he said no. At this point I'm not exactly inclined to trust him, but I'm not sure when any hypothetical affairs began or what occurred. We had condomless PIV sex last weekend when he was home, since that was the norm for most of our relationship. I'm on the pill (Loestrin 24) and take it regularly, but I'm wondering if I should call my gyn and get an STI screening done? What would I ask them for, when I call to set up an appointment? Are there things they wouldn't regularly test for, that I should ask about? Is there a particular time frame that I should get this done in?
My trust in this guy has been completely devastated so mostly I'm looking for this as a peace of mind type thing, not that I have much of that now.