I'm 20, have been sexually active since I was 16, and have never had a pap smear. Part of it's my own fault, I've been putting it off way too long because I'm nervous. I have endometriosis that was diagnosed and treated by surgery last May, and before then I had a lot of pain with penetration, especially deep penetration. Most of that issue has gone away, but truthfully, I'm terrified of getting a pap smear. I have my first appointment with my new GP on the 6th, and while she seems great from what I've heard of her, I don't want to get a pap smear from someone who's not experienced with pelvic pain.
My question is twofold: how would I go about finding someone to do a pap smear who's good with people with pelvic pain, and is there any way a doctor could give me a sedative or something beforehand? I know myself, and I know that even if it's not super painful, I'll be super nervous which might make things harder.